Blooming with Emily

Spiritual Growth & Self-Care Insights

Are the Dead Troubled?
Emily O'Neal Emily O'Neal

Are the Dead Troubled?

The inspiration for this article came to me out of nowhere a few weeks ago. I was sitting in silence during a weekly group meditation, when a single phrase pierced my awareness: There are no hungry ghosts in spirit. Humans are the hungry ghosts. I shared this insight with the group, who did what they often do, by silently taking the insight on board, nodding in acknowledgment and leaving it at that. I made a note to return to this idea when I had the time to really sit with it, and here’s what came up.

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Spiritualism in America: Women, Power, and the Price of Speaking to the Dead
Emily O'Neal Emily O'Neal

Spiritualism in America: Women, Power, and the Price of Speaking to the Dead

Working as an evidential psychic medium has led me to become interested in the history of mediumship in the United States. My interest is rooted in wanting to understand my own place in this history and the role I’d like to play in the field going forward. As I began exploring, it became clear that to understand this history you must consider the rise of Spiritualism in America in the late 19th century.

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Learning to Listen: Building an Authentic Relationship With Your Intuition
Emily O'Neal Emily O'Neal

Learning to Listen: Building an Authentic Relationship With Your Intuition

We are not short on information about intuition and inner knowing, the content is everywhere, and people are hungry for it. The IONS (Institute for Noetic Studies) course I took recently made that really clear to me. The participants were curious, engaged, and genuinely motivated. And yet what stood out to me was how many people were struggling to build an actual living practice around their intuition or noetic style (to borrow IONS language).

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Scientists Mapped 12 Types of Intuition — Here's What They Found
Emily O'Neal Emily O'Neal

Scientists Mapped 12 Types of Intuition — Here's What They Found

I’m always looking for ways to learn and grow, not only as a person, but as a medium and channel. I try to keep up with my skill development and look for opportunities to come together with others in the field around areas of common interest. When IONS (Institute of Noetic Studies) put out a call for participants to pilot their new course, Noetic Integrity: Navigating Inner Knowing with Clarity, I signed up. This is my area of expertise, and I was curious to see what they had to offer.

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Into the Cocoon: When Everything Familiar Dissolves
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Into the Cocoon: When Everything Familiar Dissolves

If you read the first piece in this series, you might be interested in exploring the emptiness that settles in when spiritual content (or practices) fail to satisfy. We unpacked the traps we can fall into including algorithms designed to exploit your attention, parasocial relationships that trick your brain into one-sided bonds with strangers, and the Barnum effect that makes generic advice feel profoundly personal.

In this piece, I want to take the conversation somewhere different. Because here’s the thing: that hollow feeling doesn’t only show up for people who watch too many tarot videos. It shows up for people who have been genuinely engaged, often for years, in a consistent self-care and spiritual practice.

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The Algorithm Is Not Your Spirit Guide
Emily O'Neal Emily O'Neal

The Algorithm Is Not Your Spirit Guide

Have you ever found yourself on your phone or computer, an hour deep into tarot readings, astrology updates, or channeled messages nodding along, feeling genuinely seen, maybe even taking notes thinking yes, this is exactly what’s happening for me right now? I have. There’s something that feels like recognition when the right message lands. And for a while it’s comforting. You believe it. You carry it with you.

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The Ghost Trail and the Lone Wolf: On Seeking What Others Have Forgotten
Emily O'Neal Emily O'Neal

The Ghost Trail and the Lone Wolf: On Seeking What Others Have Forgotten

In mid-May of 2026, a three-year-old female gray wolf designated BEY03F, affectionately known as Bae, crossed into Sequoia National Park. She is the first wolf to enter this highly protected territory in more than a century. She has entered this place alone after traveling over 1,000 miles since leaving her birthplace in Plumas County, located in the northeastern region of California. Her historic trek has now spanned at least 12 California counties, including a milestone crossing into Los Angeles County, a first for any wolf in over a century. After traversing the rugged Sierra Nevada range, she has most recently been tracked roaming high-altitude terrain inside Sequoia National Park. Her journey will continue until she finds mate.

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The Dream Caravan: A Sufi Teaching, A Tarot Card, and the Question of When to Leave
Emily O'Neal Emily O'Neal

The Dream Caravan: A Sufi Teaching, A Tarot Card, and the Question of When to Leave

I’ve been following Brit Hartley’s work for a while now. If you haven’t come across her, she runs No Nonsense Spirituality and does exactly what her name promises. She takes dense spiritual ideas and breaks them down in a clear, manageable way. Her commitment to education, discernment, and personal experience over rigid doctrine appeals to me. We come from different backgrounds, and our paths don’t look the same from the outside, but I recognize the same orientation: ask the hard questions, value direct experience, share what you’re learning, and keep growing. So, when she offered a course on mysticism with her own spiritual teacher, a Sufi mystic named David, I signed up.

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What Lives in the Dark: A Spiritual Guide to Working with What Frightens You
Emily O'Neal Emily O'Neal

What Lives in the Dark: A Spiritual Guide to Working with What Frightens You

Fear is a normal part of life. In fact, fear is part of who we are. We’ve all felt it, and in some instances, it has likely kept you alive. But even though we know fear is to be expected, that it’s part of life, most of us avoid it if we can. While on the surface it might seem obvious why, lately I’ve been asking myself: why do I fear fear?

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On Spirit Guides: Tracing the Cultural Roots of a Modern Spiritual Concept
Emily O'Neal Emily O'Neal

On Spirit Guides: Tracing the Cultural Roots of a Modern Spiritual Concept

When I tell people I’m an evidential psychic medium, one of the most common questions I get is about spirit guides. “How do I meet my spirit guide?” “Can you connect me with my guides?” The language of “spirit guides” is everywhere in modern spirituality—from Instagram posts to meditation apps to spiritual bestsellers.

But here’s what rarely gets discussed: Where did this concept come from? What are we really invoking when we use this language? And does it matter that we’ve stripped these ideas from their cultural contexts?

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Guardian Angels and Why We Love Them: Tracing Our Enduring Bond with Celestial Protectors
Emily O'Neal Emily O'Neal

Guardian Angels and Why We Love Them: Tracing Our Enduring Bond with Celestial Protectors

Roughly 70% of American adults believe in angels—a figure that, according to a 2023 study by The Associated Press and the NORC Center for Public Affairs Research, surpasses the number of people who believe in the devil or hell. Fascinatingly, angels have a broad appeal that crosses secular lines. Many people who reject organized religion and traditional theology entirely still believe in angels, proving the concept resonates far beyond regular churchgoers.

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From Survival to Service: The Connection Between Trauma and Spiritual Abilities
Emily O'Neal Emily O'Neal

From Survival to Service: The Connection Between Trauma and Spiritual Abilities

My therapist once told me I was hypervigilant—a term that initially felt like another label for something “wrong” with me. What I’ve come to understand through years of training, therapy, and research is that hypervigilance and dissociation, while often born from trauma, can become profound tools for healing when approached with intention and proper support.

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Walking Between Worlds: Embracing Ancestral Magic at the Equinox
Emily O'Neal Emily O'Neal

Walking Between Worlds: Embracing Ancestral Magic at the Equinox

The Big Wheel is turning so I thought I’d offer some guidance on how you might choose to engage the seasonal shift by working with your healed and wise ancestors. The more I work as a medium and connect clients with loved ones in spirit (including ancestors they know of but have never met) the more I feel called to speak to the importance of ancestral connection.

It’s likely that you’ll hear more about this down the road, but for now, consider this newsletter an invitation to gently, and intuitively incorporate some ancestral magic into your equinox self-care and spiritual practices. Let’s dive in.

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Breaking Free of Limiting Beliefs
Emily O'Neal Emily O'Neal

Breaking Free of Limiting Beliefs

I want to share something vulnerable with you. A few months ago, I found myself trapped in the exact patterns I help my clients navigate. I was caught in endless mental loops, overthinking every decision, and feeling paralyzed by self-doubt.

During my daily tarot practice, I kept pulling cards from the suit of swords: the 8 of Swords, 9 of Swords, and 2 of Swords. Card after card, these images stared back at me revealing figures with eyes closed or covered, trapped by their own thoughts. At first, I was frustrated. Why wasn't I getting clearer guidance?

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Cultivating the Essential: A Journey Through the Lens of Human Needs
Emily O'Neal Emily O'Neal

Cultivating the Essential: A Journey Through the Lens of Human Needs

What if the key to a fulfilling life isn't found in acquiring more, but in understanding what truly matters? In our fast-paced world of endless choices and distractions, the ability to identify what is essential is both helpful and transformative.

Within the practice of becoming clear on what is essential, a guiding light emerges, helping us recognize the elements that align with our deepest values and aspirations.

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What's Your Intuition Style?
Emily O'Neal Emily O'Neal

What's Your Intuition Style?

Discover how you naturally connect with and honor your inner wisdom.

Your intuition is always speaking, but how do you listen? This quiz explores the unique ways you attune to your inner knowing and the practices that support your deepest self-trust. Choose the answer that resonates most authentically with you.

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